#1117 serve: --elastic, an automatic elastic expert cache with a fixed core (opt-in; resubmission of #1030 on the new main)

Beschreibung

Resubmission of #1030 (closed by the history cleanup), cherry-picked onto the new `main` (82f46a8) as you suggested,
and brought up to 0.1.40.

**What it is.** `--elastic` (opt-in): an automatic elastic expert cache for a card that is shared with desktop programs
whose VRAM use comes and goes while the server runs. The cache is a VMM arena: a fixed core filled from the profile,
plus a tail that grows when VRAM has stayed free and shrinks (in steps, between decode rounds) when it is needed back,
keeping a reserve free. It never opens together with `--vram-elastic` (#533), which stays the manual control.
Design notes: `docs/ELASTIC_CACHE.md`.

**Since #1030**
- rebased on 0.1.40: the cache's flag is `elastic_vmm_` (0.1.40 added `std::unique_ptr<VmmRange> vmm_`);
- works with `--batch`: the elastic step also runs between two batch windows (refused only with `--batch-groups > 1`);
- at startup an arena that does not fit (the last chunks' `cuMemCreate` out of memory) retries up to 4 times, 512 MiB
  smaller each, before falling back to the fixed cache;
- `--kv-grow` stays off with `--elastic` (the K/V would be sized before the arena that it grows into).

**Verified** (RTX 2080 Ti 22 GB, sm_75, Windows, CUDA 12.6, Qwen3.8-Flash-Next IQ3_XXS):
- without `--elastic`, fixed-placement teacher forcing (two prompts, 169 and 595 positions) is byte-identical to
  upstream 0.1.40;
- the cache CTests pass (`expert_cache_elastic_test`, `_per_layer_test`, `_segmented_test`, `expert_profile_save_test`);
- on our fork the same code has run as the daily default since September 30; under a 3 GB allocation by another
  process the tail shrinks between rounds (8.3 -> 5.7 GB) while two answers keep going, then grows back.

Happy to split it into smaller pieces if you prefer (for example the arena alone).

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